On the fence - thinking i should hop over and run?

first year together, bought him a nice watch he'd been looking at, and beautiful bracelates for his daughters for their bdays... my birthday, we were broke, he took me for dinner and that was it.. no big deal... christmas, gave me a gift certifcate to get my hair done - that was nice, but i got it a week before xmas.... didnt even get to spend xmas with him cause his family didnt like me and he had his kids, so he spent it with his family... new years eve, had our first stupid fight, still went to nyc and had a great time... huge fight on valentines day, didnt get to make my nice dinner... whole day ruined... his birthday comes in march - still not much money, took him to lunch with my parents, got him a cake and a little present he had wanted, they played happy bday over the speakers at the restaurant.. it was cute... our one year anniversary, went to dinner at a nice restaurant, had a fight on the way home, went to bed angry... he goes to italy with kids for 2 weeks w/o me, i stay and watch his families business and get paid all of $8/ hour to be there... still no big deal... he comes home, still help him watch his families buisiness while his parents are away, get paid even less cause he';s making the paycheck now, and giving me a little - though i dont work all that much - so its no big deal... he's trying to open a business for us with his dad, tells me not to worry about getting a job - ok.... dad falls through, decides not to open business, i'm unemployed till april the following year... my bday, get a sweatshirt and sneakers i had wanted, not wrapped, given to me the night before.... xmas, got him a huge remote control car he'd been looking at.. thoguht it was fun... i got a book (actually wrapped) and a certificate to target... his parents like me now, so xmas eve i get to spend with them, most of xmas day, then he saysd to me "do we have to go to your families?" cause he's havcing a good time at his house... we go to my sisters, most of my family is gone by then... his brother comes over from italy, valentines day, a week after he'd been here, we were supposed to go eat, me him and the kids, he calls me and tells me his dad wants to go out just them andhis brother, and i dont get to go.. i get 3 roses, and im mad the rest of the day.. he apologizes... his bday., i still dont have a job, but managed to save enough money to get him cirque du soliel tix for the 4 of us that he had been wanting for months... fought with me the whole drive and then said he was sorry and its the best present anyone has ever gotten him... i dont remember our 2 year anniversary this year... he goes to italy again, this time for 3 weeks with his kids, while i stay home, work and watch his house... he wouldnt have gone if his dad didnt buy him the tix, but apparently i am still not family enough to be a part of it... my bday, get nothing, not a card, not a flower.. nothing more than a happy bday... he didnt come to lunch with my mom, sister, best friend nd his kids with me, and got nothing special for dinner that night either.. it was almost just another day... his 6 year olds bday, put on a huge party, my sister comes and does some zumba kids for the kids, loads of parents, spent a lot of $$... he gets a huge settle ment... he buys loads of equipment for a business he wants to start this year... still, no issues... xmas comes, he spends tons of $$ onthe kids, gives his ex wifes best friend $100 for their kids cause her husband just lost his job, i get him a beautiful watch and the coffee maker he's wanted, i get 2 pairs of PJs, size small and medium, both not my type, one not my size, no reciept, no tags, cannot be exchanged, and a jacket i had wanted, 3 sizes too big... also cant be exchanged... he spent more $$ on the ex wifes friend than me... wants to know what we're doing for new years, got invited by his frineds gf, whom i dont really like... dont really wanna go, but dont have anything else to do... he was like, "well, we spend xmas with your family..." im like, what does that have to do with anything... i loved him so much, but am feeling really disappointed, and sad.. i said last night, "i wanna get my nails done and go get my zumba 2 certification in feb... " thinking he'd offer the $$, since he has it, we've been living together, and i take care of his kids and house... he says, "well, when you have a job and get the $$, you can do whatever you want... " this just doesnt feel rightOn the fence - thinking i should hop over and run?
Sweety ...you are low man on this totum pole.......in other words you are and have been ...the last one he thinks of.BEEN THERE DONE THAT!! Its not going to get any better..If you say anything to him about it ...you will get...you are jealous of my family....or some other lame excuse.If I were you ..I would hop over that fence and run for my life.......Believe me ITS NOT GOING TO GET ANY BETTER...TRUST ME....Good Luck Also the ones saying you are an ungrayeful b****,well they probably have a very hard time getting a guy...so they are willing to put up with the B***S***.On the fence - thinking i should hop over and run?
Leave him. It sounds like he just wants you there to be a baby sitter and a maid. Leave him so that you can be happy.On the fence - thinking i should hop over and run?
Whether his actions are correct or not, you seem to be very resentful of them. You also seem to be keeping score, going back to the moment you met him. If you're unhappy, leave. If you find a straight guy that wraps presents or gets sizes right, let me know.
You sound like an ungrateful b***** no wonder he doesn't want to be with you any chance he gets.



Stop keeping score. From what I read, you gave him 2 watches in one year, imagine he was doing the same thing you are, he would notice.



By the way, most guys forget to wrap presents or get sizes right...