Monday, February 13, 2012

Im being stalked by my old best friend?

i asked this question a few weeks ago but didnt get much feedback so im asking it again. okay so my old best friend started getting really wierd. he got really nasty (wiping his snot on my pillow once and shoving it in my face) and then he started to get all mad at everything anyone did. our parents are BEST FRIENDS and always have been. its really creepy because back when we were insane nerds together we used to play video games on a hardcore scale. he knows all my passwords to everything including my email, facebook and school id. Once we went to NYC for our birthdays and my dad took us to a really fancy restaurant. we got lobster and he said he wanted feticcini alfredo (forgive me if i miss-spelled that) instead. he started to cry and he finally got what he wanted. then his mom left to go to the bathroom and he asked everyone for some lobster and CRIED (13 year old crying in a public restaurant over the stupidest thing ever) that he didn't get any. he cries about everything and is also a smart aleck and a huge jerk. once we liked the same girl and she rejected him and said yes to me and he was upset for months about that. he makes the worlds biggest deal out of everything and once he said he really wanted to see eagle eye. we were 12 at the time and i got it and invited him over to see it. did it really matter if he was aloud to or not? he had to call his mom for whatever reason and ask her if he could see it. hes really babyish and it was obviously for attention. he does everything for attention and cries and pouts a ton. also once he came over and asked me if we could talk seriously. i said sure and he told me he had no friends. in my head i was like: no kidding you jerk face! but i told him i understood. he started crying and he told his mom that he was crying cuz i PUNCHED HIM. i was like wtf?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! i didnt talk to him for like a week and then we saw eachother again and he got all upset and said he was sorry. i forgave him but a month later (this was around 3 weeks ago?) my dog died and i also had to break up with my girlfriend. my parents invited his family over and i had to entertain him. I let him win at call of duty because i owned the game and was a lot better than him at it and didnt want him to cry. he boasted for like 4 or 5 minutes about winning and i just kept sighing and rolling my eyes. he asked me: DUDE WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU TONIGHT? IM JUST TRYING TO HAVE FUN AND YOU GOTTA BE ALL PESSIMISTIC!!!! that is when i completely lost it and screamed: MAYBE YOUR THE MOST DICKLESS SPOILED LITTLE BASTARD IN THE WORLD! YOUR PARENTS LET YOU HAVE EVERYTHING BECAUSE THEY NO IF THEY DONT LET YOU YOU WILL FLIP OUT AND CRY AND ALSO MAYBE ITS CUZ MY DOG JUST ****ING DIED AND I JUST HAD TO BREAK UP WITH MY ****ING GIRLFRIEND!!!!! im getting really pissed just writing this! anyways i didnt talk to him for a while and his parents are really nice but his mom is insanely anti-violence so the one thing he was never aloud to have was a call of duty game. he begged and begged and begged and his facebook status said that he finally got it. now he keeps requesting to game with me so i havent really been on in a while. the other day i saw him outside my house waiting... and i got really freaked out and i want to tell him i dont like him anymore. only problem is his parents are really really nice and they have helped me and my family a lot lately. i dont want to let them down especially because they are my parents best friends. my mom knows my situation and says to just deal with him when i need too because we owe his parents. for two years ive had 3 new best friends (triplets) who are way better than my old one and i dont know what to do because i see him all the time in school and out of school! help?Im being stalked by my old best friend?
.In this case mom's is sound advice,So for appearances sake.Suffer in silence and just hope this guy grows upIm being stalked by my old best friend?
Wow! that was some confrontation you two had there! I'm sorry about your dog and your relationship too.



Okay, so here's whats going on. You know how he told you he doesn't have a lot of friends? That could be because of a number of reasons starting from insecurity. He feels inferior to everyone else which explains the crying (thats how he vents his frustration). He feels comfortable enough with you since you two have grown up together and he lets it all go. His mother probably doesn't expect him to be crying in front of another boy.



Now, this might sound really silly to you, but keep him around. He is bound to grow up some time. Second, you can never have enough number of friends. If he annoys you, tell him as seriously as possible to "Back off". Magic words for making anyone go away.



I hope this helps you, love!

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