Does she want a friendship or a relationship脡?

Known each other for 6 months, and are close. She models, as a result travels 3-4 days a week. But we manage to always have dinner and phone each other often. She's known I have feelings for her, but is adamant nothing can happen as we're not the same religion (she's very religious). And says she will always only see me as a friend. We've had breaks because of it. Three weeks ago, we mutually agreed to another break, but she thought it was permanent, and later said I "broke up" with her. She was crying alot, and later confessed that she took the present she got for me, and broke it with a hammer, before throwing it away.



I realized it was wrong. Each break we had before she was emotional, but this time she wouldnt stop crying, the next day I drove to the airport to make up. Since then, she's made me promise to stop leaving her, because she feels like a yo-yo. She confessed that she's been depressed since it happened. She's calling and texting almost everyday. On one particular day, she called me for an hour before she left for the airport, then an hour while she was at the airport, then when she got to her hotel room. A few days ago, she told me she was thinking of being less religious, but wouldn't say why. She's asked me to a charity event last week, and cd release party at a lounge but I was busy. She said she had to leave for NYC, but would be back on Monday, and asked if I wanted to have dinner with her then, I agreed to that, and suggested a restaurant. Finally, last Thursday, she made me lunch to take to the office. I could tell she took alot of time, it was arranged beautifully. It seems like she's putting alot more effort into us, but is it because she wants to be better friends, or have a romantic relationship? Keep in mind, we were always close, it just seemed before, I was the one always calling, so maybe she just wants that relationship back.Does she want a friendship or a relationship脡?
You never know just what you got till its gone. I think that's what she's going through right now. When you were always present she never thought it a possibility that there would come a day when you wouldn't be around.

But you need to ask this girl what she wants. I can't tell you what it is but I don't think she knows either! She sounds lovely but not very stable. She wants to be with you, she doesn't, she's too religious, she wants to be less religious. Even she isn't even stable and confident in her religion then how can she be confident in other choices?

And also, I'm just curious but you keep breaking up with her? Maybe you need to become a little more stable too in your choices. You have to decide to be with this girl or not be with her, because the yo yo effect could drive her away.

You sound like you're both in the same boat. Take time, for yourselves, and figure out just who you are and what it is you want
I think there is a possibility that she wants a relationship. (Since she made you promise not to leave her)Does she want a friendship or a relationship脡?
relationship from what you've said,
To me it already sounds like you are in a relationship?

Sorry, but I dont know anyone who makes someone who isn't their partner or child lunch! I am married and have never made my husband lunch for work.



To me it seems like she is using you as the yo yo, and picking you up and dropping you when she feels like it. Perhaps she is a bit needy, and realised you were slipping away and didnt like it? Either way, I think she has feelings for you, but Im not sure her behaviour is such that you could base a normal healthy relationship on.

xDoes she want a friendship or a relationship脡?
I think she is in love with you!! and is now at a point where she feels she is about to loose you. Like all girls, when we feel we about to lose something we hold dear, we go into clingy mode. The fact that she is thinking about being less religious is a clear sign she is open to something more with you!!!
How about trying to lean her way a little and learn about her religious beliefs. Ask her to go to church with you. Mass or what ever her religious community does. I think this will help you to understand her feelings. And we all know, it's all about feelings with women.
i would say she would want a relationship

its like why would she go through all that trouble

well,i think she wants to be with you all the time

if shes always calling you know

but you can never be to sure

maybe shes just playin games
The two of you are not really being honest. Reading through that, it's pretty obvious you already ARE BF %26amp; GF, not just in her mind, but in yours, too. You're afraid to admit it in case you're reading it wrong and she's afraid to admit it because of her religion.



There's no-one at all but her in your mind, is there? You wouldn't even dream of dating another girl, because on some level you already think of yourself as dating her. I'd bet she's the same.



You need to make it clear to her that you respect her faith and fully understand that she would keep to it and that you would expect no different. That you fully accept it because you fully accept her. Make sure you mean it, though. If you don't, your relationship will fail.



With that out of the way, the two of you should finally be able to take that step you are both longing for and be officially dating rather than pretending you are not.
yes. she realy want you. and oyu want to spend more time with her, ask her to take a break, if she really really cant then you should understand that or go on road with her, never asume shes cheating cause she spends most of her time on the phone with you anyway.