She's rejected me several times, would this time be different?

I am sorry it's an essay, but I think the details are important. I met her about 6 months ago. We got close. She models, traveling 2-3 days a week. But spends a lot of time with me (a lot of dinners) when she's here. Then I told her how I felt. She said there's no future because of our different religions. I told her we should distance ourselves, and although we left the restaurant together, she was crying.



Her friend called me and told me she had been crying for days, so I called and said we could try being friends. Well being friends doesn't work. We've had 3 breaks from being "friends". The last one she wanted a 2 week break. Saying, she's so overwhelmed with our friendship. That she thinks we should only hang out in groups (we have no mutual friends), and not do anything personal for each other anymore.



So our break ends, and we got close again. Now every other night she crawls into bed, and we talk for hours on the phone before she falls asleep. Before she left for NYC this weekend. She asked if I wanted to come with her to a religious event of hers. I told her yes, but I am Christian, and not looking to convert. She said she's not asking me to, she just wants me more involved in her life. She was really happy I said yes. After that, she asked if I wanted to get dinner on Tuesday, and watch a movie on Monday. I said sure, even though the only time I asked her to the movies, she told me "no" because she hated movies and always fell asleep. Yesterday I get the text "Hey my plane just landed. I wanted to tell you that I am excited and looking forward to going to the movies on Monday!"



I really do care a lot about her. I've tried dating other girls. But it always comes back to her. But I don't want to constantly go in the on/off relationship, it's not healthy. She's rejected me so many times...am I crazy to think this time it might be different?She's rejected me several times, would this time be different?
No you don't sound like your crazy at all. If you two keep coming back together then there is good reason to think that you might be able to work it out.



I sound like she really wants to be with you but that she is having a hard time getting a grip on the religion thing.



You two need to come to an agreement that you won't try to drag each other into whatever faith that you follow. That can be done---you don't bring it up and you don't mention it to each other.



Christians think everyone but them is wrong and that if they don't get them turned around then their loved one is going to get toasted in hell.



You need to explain it to her like you did here---you are articulate and obvioulsy intelligent---It sounds like you two can work this out.
She is confused about what she wants. The best thing for you to do is not read into anything and just go with it. It sounds like she wants to be with you and share her life with you. Is the different religions REALLY that much of an issue? Can it really come between you and not allow you to have a relationship? Go to the movies and dinner and don't expect anything out of it. Be her friend and when she realizes, for the 100th time what a great catch she has, she will come around and commit. The next time she wants to take a break, be OK with it and if she doesn't contact you in a week or so, text her asking her if she misses you yet. You will know what is going on if she texts you back. If not, then it was just plain not meant to be.She's rejected me several times, would this time be different?
why dont u just move on?
I agree with the first answer, she's confused and doesn't know what she wants.

Give her time and she'll figure it out.She's rejected me several times, would this time be different?
Sounds like she has too much going on right now with her traveling and modeling career and your not at the top of her list unless she gets lonely and needs somebody there she knows you will be there because she knows you really like her. BTW how old are you guys that kinda matters too. Until she realizes your a good guy and like the saying goes, you don't know what you have until it's gone is very true for a reason. I would give it some time and give her space if she is smart she'll come running back to you! If not don't worry it wasn't meant to be.
Well, she may mean and and she may not. It's totally up to you if you give it another shot. If your not up to a possible heartbreak then just don't even bother.

You could try to give her another shot but don't get your hopes up. I learned that from experience. When you get your hopes up heart break hurts more.