Friday, February 10, 2012

Just broke up with my boyfriend.. i need advice?

we work togetherat a restaurant. we've been talking/kissing the whole 2 years we've worked together. in june, we made things 'official'. he even told me he was single when i was joking about it. anyways, i found out yesterday that he is seeing our other coworker! they seem to be in a relationship with the type of pics that ive seen. like, by the nyc skyline, in a restaurant, %26amp; on the beach, etc... it got me so upset and heartbroken.. we've been saying i love you and everything.. it just makes me wonder if all he ever told me is a lie? what did he even want from me? ...we've never hooked up! (but he constantlt told me i will always love u and always be waiting for you...) ughh. i guess there is no way of finding out.

i found out about this yesterday before he and i seen each other, so when he came into work, we worked about 8 hours without saying a word.. which is so unusal. not that i WANT to talk to him, but i guess now he knows that i know and he cant even say ANYTHING?

I guess this is why we never really made any plans to go out outside of work. i thought it was just because i was still in school and my other job (crazy schedule) and that he only has 1 day off a week. but nope... he was just making more time for her....

how can i get over this? i thought we had something more serious going on. i was so in love with him, and he told me too. do you think that he even cares, or ever did???Just broke up with my boyfriend.. i need advice?
It's normal to feel heartbroken about this, but seriously, be happy that you dodged a bullet...you could have found out MUCH later in the relationship that he was a two-timing ***. Focus on yourself, try not to think about him (request a different shift if you have to...or make it a policy to yourself that you will not date co-workers).



Don't get hung up on one worthless guy. In time you'll learn to separate the fakes from the true-blues. Take care and feel better!

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