I recently met a wealthy man who is married???

I had no idea he was married. He never wore his ring and he told me was single. for 4 months we dated before I knew. He flew me to a Jamaican resort, Miami, we stayed in his beach house in Malibu, and he let me and my best friend stay a week in his condo in NYC. He recently made a large down payment on my range rover and he always lets me drive his mercedes benz. We go to lavish restaurants and hotels and he takes me shopping all the time. He bought me my first designer Louis Vuitton which cost almost 2000.00 dollars! he gives me like 2,000 dollars a month and i never want for anything. The sex is soooo amazing and I love all my clothes, gifts, and most importantly my Range Rover. But now that i know he's married, I see that he is only using me and im starting to feel bought. Should I leave and give back the gifts. Or should I continue this forbidden affair???

Please help...I know Im wrong for dating a married manI recently met a wealthy man who is married???
keep everything as a they were gifts. You did not sign on to be a prostitute. You need to be available for a real quality relationship with a guy that isn't married. He is liar and a cheat. How could sex be so great with a guy like that? Put your stuff in your truck and say see ya. Imagine if that was your husband? He is using you, sorry. Where did you meet him so I knwo where I could send my single friends to meet his single friends. Money, nice gifts, etc. are not as valuable as your time and self worth.
What you describe isn't dating, even if he weren't married.



If you're serious -- this sounds rather dramatically overkill for a real question -- then only you can decide if being a kept woman to a married man is truly worse than being a kept woman for a single man. I would dislike being a kept woman at all, but, I'm not you.I recently met a wealthy man who is married???
He is married and most likely will not leave his wife for you. If he wanted out of his marriage he would have done so already.



So, he is buying sex with you with gifts. What does that make you feel like?



Sooner or later, he will drop you and move on to another woman. If his wife finds out, he will end contact with you to make her happy.



Keep in mind, his wife drives that mercedes also. He also has sex with her. You will always remain in the shadows of his marriage.
If you know that what you're doing is wrong then why are you still with him? You're selling yourself. He gets something and you are getting something. So basically you are a 'kept woman'. If you want to continue taking the gives as a form of being 'paid for your services' then so be it. Keep up the charade until he's used you up and moved on. But just remember Karma is a b*tch and what going around comes around.I recently met a wealthy man who is married???
It sounds like its a decision you need to make. That said,,, you need to get out. You were deceived and had no plans to be a sugarbaby sitting number two to wifey. If the lavish gifts are the only thing keeping you in the relationship try one of the many sugardaddie dating sites online. Get yourself a better more honest man that can spoil you in the same manner.
I'm imagining that you'll meet Mr. Right in a few months. He'll look at your affair, the fact that the other man made billions and spent lavishly on you, and run like crazy. If you don't ever see yourself as marriage material, you might get away with the affair. If you do, you might conduct yourself in a way that the next man might appreciate. Take care!
you said it all you are being bought and you probably arent the first and maybe not the only one now he probably has no intentions on getting a divorce and if he did and married you he probably would do the same to you(run around) the gifts and trips etc you are being paid good for your services and it is not morally right think of the other woman its something you have to decide on i wouldnt give back the gifts though you earned them
So you know the answer if you know your wrong. It obviously feels bad to be a kept mistress with the possiblity of ruining an entire family. Trust me if he has kids they won't care what your excuses are you will forever be the wh0re that ruined their family. You don't want that! Do you? Anyways I will say keep everything he gave you; after all you should get paid for services rendered.
If you know you're wrong, why are you asking anybody else what you should do?



I don't understand taking gifts like that in the first place...that's what they call being a "kept woman," which is a nice way to say prostitute. It's up to you if you want to be one, I guess. But don't fool yourself - he's not the only one "using," you've been using him too.
Feel like he's using you?? Better yet you used him!! You're a prostitute good for nothing woman. "Forbidden affair" you're nasty and worthless for even dealing with a married man. How hard can this be?? You don't even have feelings for him, you're after his money and nothing else... You've been with him for 4 months and look at all you took from him... you're disgusting.
So add you name to the Hotel register and let the Manager know that you are available You should get a large clientel going that way.. That way when your sugar daddy decides you are costing him too much and he finds another girl you will already have your reputation established as a high price call girl..
Well, you didn't know he was married. He lied to you. I agree, I'd leave and take the gifts with me. =) If you continue you are in the wrong. Yes, I would also make sure his wife knows before dumping him. I'd want to make his life incredibly uncomfortable since he lied to you both.
how would you feel if you were married, and some brat was dating your man? hm? not good. Im sorry for being mean or tough but your really screwing him over. how dare you. that makes you and him disgusting. He should be ashamed of himself. and now you have to live with that guilt. UNLESS, you break up with him. you know the right choice. listen to your heart.
Do you realize that all that you mentioned were material things? (except the sex). Do you believe in Kharma? If yes, then you had better get out quick. Besides, would you want to be with the kind of guy who cheats? He's a pig. Find a nice guy, they are out there.
you should leave him, getting gifts, and getting treated like royalty, maybe like paradise,

But getting used, that's .. bad

And, your also hurting someone ... his wife

its not fair to you or her

if i were you I'd dump him , give everything back, and find someone that RLY loves you
OH of course give it all back and send him my way... are you kidding.. your using him... plzzzzzzzz he is using you..or maybe both..as long as your happy being playmate of the year with him.. go for it..while he is boning you... she wife is well I am sure she has her playmate on the side.. funny thing is..men think woman are clueless.. but there not..
If you feel like you are selling yourself, and that bothers you. Leave him. The fact is he is paying you off. Once you start causing trouble and demanding..things like him leaving his wife. He will leave you. Right now he expects favors in exchange for the things he gives you.
OK so now you know he is married it is time to stop seeing him and break this relationship off. You were being bought but it is up to you if you give back the gifts or not.
I would speak to him about his marriage.

What is going on? If you find his answer is acceptable,

and you really enjoy being with him, and he enjoys

being with you and give you gifts, I say go for it.

You only life once..be happy.
If you respect youself leave. You are being used by him and just imagine how bad his wife would feel if she found out. Also you shouldn't expect any commitment from him. He is cheating on his wife and could easily have another woman than you hes having sex with.
You already know what you should do, the question is what do you want to do. Do you always want to be the other woman or do you want to be the only woman for someone else?
do not give him back those gifts.



leave him and tell him thank you for the gifts, but you have decided not to be a hooker.
You know the answer. Don't give back the gifts, but end the affair. You will ALWAYS just be the "other" woman. And basically a high priced hooker if you stay with him. Is that all that your worth????
Then stop dating him, if he's cheating he will not leave the wife. Yes this is wrong, my ex cheated on to so I know how this feels, divorced him in 2007 after 31 years.
How do you think his wife feels??? I can't wait till girls like you get married maybe you will change your mind about dating married men when you get one!
Leave and you have no obligation to give back the gifts! You deserve those gifts for him playing your emotions! But now that you know he is married do not accept anything else from him!
If you continue to see him and accept his gifts, you are participating in a form of prostitution.
You need to tell his wife so she can know who he is. Leave the dog alone, but keep the gifts.
I think you go for option C: leave and keep the gifts.
Leave and keep the gifts. You didn't waste your time for nothing.
so you dated a married sugar daddy?