im 23 and i started seeing this guy this week, hes 33. he was engaged to his ex fiance and they split up sometime in july. hes a good friend of my cousins fiance. anyway ive never dated anyone before cause im really shy but for some reason i feel comfortable around him, and i think i like him. on tuesday i was at his house with my friend and one of his friends, and its the first time we ever really talked or hung out.
he kissed me a couple times n then after i left sent me text mesages saying that he liked me. he wanted me to come visit him at work the next day,( i didnt because i was tired) and i met up with him on friday again. and we were kissing at the bar n stuff and he was touching my hair and being so sweet!
i met up with him again last night. he wanted to see me saturday and sunday but i told him i was tired. sooo last night i texted him, because i didnt want him to think that i didnt like him, im just shy. so i went to visit him at work (he works at a restaurant) and i basically stayed there from 7 til the time he got out..at like 10. then we drank together n a couple of our friends stopped by. eventually we left together and went to his house.
we made out on his couch and i think we both wanted to have sex but we didnt. he told me that he doesn't want anything serious cause hes always had a girlfriend, and i think hes still hurting over his ex fiance, although he says hes not. hes like i dont wanna hurt you, you're a nice girl. i don't know what to take this as!!!! i'm so picky and i seriously NEVER date any guys EVER, and when i finally allow myself to be open to one, this is what happens.
he hasnt texted me yet today, hes in nyc for an interview though. im so annoyed and upset and i don't know what to do! any advice would be very appreciated.I have no idea what he wants?
i love youI have no idea what he wants?
He seems to be trying to do the right thing. Let him have some time to himself and see what happens. at least he respects you and is not just trying to use you for sex.I have no idea what he wants?
He likes you, but he misses his ex .
Your call
Ether you leave him alone until he asks you out,( at which point he will decide that he's over his ex enough to date you
OR
You keep trying to talk to him ether though he clearly isn't ready for a new relationship and he's going to be thinking of his ex constantly while he's out on dates with you.
Sucks, but thats what it is.
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