Does she want a relationship or a friendship?

We've known each other for 6 months, and are close. She models, as a result travels 3-4 days a week. But we manage to have dinner and phone each other often. She's always known I have feelings for her, but is adamant nothing can happen as we're not the same religion (she's very religious). And says she will always only see me as a friend. We've had breaks because of it. Three weeks ago, we agreed to another break, but she thought it was permanent, and later said I broke up with her. She was crying alot, and later confessed that she took the present she got for me, and broke it with a hammer.



I realized it was a mistake, the next day I drove to the airport to make up. Since then, she's made me promise to stop leaving her. She confessed that she's been depressed since it happened. She's calling and texting almost everyday. On one particular day, she called me for an hour before she left for the airport, then an hour while she was at the airport, then when she got to her hotel room. A few days ago, she told me she was thinking of being less religious, but wouldn't say why. She's asked me to a charity event last week, but I wasn't in town. A few days ago, she asked if I wanted to join her at a cd release party, but again, I couldn't. She said she had to leave for NYC, but would be back on Monday, and asked if I wanted to have dinner with her then, she had the whole week free next week, which doesn't happen often. I agreed to that, and suggested a restaurant. Finally, on Thursday, she made me lunch to take to the office. I could tell she took alot of time, it was arranged beautifully. It seems like she's putting alot more effort into us, but is it because she wants to be better friends, or have a romantic relationship?Does she want a relationship or a friendship?
That really sounds like she's interested in a relationship, I don't know many girls who go that much out of their way for just another guy friend.



What I don't get is when you say, taking a break, you don't take breaks from friendships, and you don't 'break up' from friendships as far as I know.

Are you sure she doesn't already consider this a relationship?Does she want a relationship or a friendship?
Move on.Does she want a relationship or a friendship?
looks like your heading towards a relationship

but i dont think u should get in to.....she seems very needy
When a girl tells a guy she just wants to be friends. It means NO SEX



Girls are usually sure of whether a guy is going to be their friend or lover. Just as guys are sure of whether girls are going to be flings or girlfriend.



She keeps you as a friend becuz you give her the attention and caring of a boyfriend. Women like to have relationships just for the sake of it. Just like guys like to have sex just because.



Relationships to a woman = what sex is to guys.