Monday, February 13, 2012

Do you think she wants a friendship or a romantic relationship?

We've known each other for 6 months, and are close friends. She models, as a result travels 3-4 days a week. But we manage to have dinner about once a week, and phone each other often. She's always known I have feelings for her, but is adamant nothing can happen as we're not the same religion (she's very religious). And says she will always only see me as a friend. We've had breaks because of it. Three weeks ago, we agreed to another break, but she thought it was permanent, and later said I broke up with her. She was crying alot, and later confessed that she took the present she got for me, and broke it with a hammer.



I realized it was a mistake, the next day I drove to the airport to make up. Since then, she's made me promise to stop leaving her. She confessed that she's been depressed since it happened. She's always told me that it's very easy for her to cut a guy out of her life; but the day we talked, she went through her phone and deleted over a dozen numbers, but said she couldn't delete mine. She's calling and texting almost everyday. On one particular day, she called me for an hour before she left for the airport, then an hour while she was at the airport, then when she got to her hotel room. A few days ago, she told me she was thinking of being less religious, but wouldn't say why. She's asked me to a charity event last week, but I wasn't in town. A few days ago, she asked if I wanted to join her at a cd release party, but again, I couldn't. She said she had to leave for NYC, but would be back on Monday, and asked if I wanted to have dinner with her then, she had the whole week free next week, which doesn't happen often. I agreed to that, and suggested a restaurant. Finally, on Thursday, she made me lunch to take to the office. I could tell she took alot of time, it was arranged beautifully. It seems like she's putting alot more effort into us, but is it because she wants to be better friends, or have a romantic relationship?Do you think she wants a friendship or a romantic relationship?
It is obvious she has fallen in love with you. When she told you that in the future she would be less religious, it was a way for her to confess to you that she was open for a dipper relationship with you, no ifs or but. So treat her well for she cares for you a lot more than you think. Good luck. In time if you keep loving each other you will overcome the religion problem, like millions before you have done.Do you think she wants a friendship or a romantic relationship?
It seems like she's going towards the idea of a relationship. It sounds to me like at first she didn't want to admit the fact that she also had feelings for you, but now she can't hold it back any longer.

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