Monday, February 13, 2012

Can someone give me advice about my relationship please?

We've known each other for 6 months, and are close friends. She models, as a result travels 3-4 days a week. But we manage to have dinner about once a week, and phone each other often. She's always known I have feelings for her, but is adamant nothing can happen as we're not the same religion (she's very religious). And says she always only see's me as a friend. We've had breaks because of it. Two weeks ago, we agreed to another break, but she thought it was permanent, and later said I broke up with her. She was crying alot, and later confessed that she took the present she got for me, and broke it.



I realized it was a mistake, the next day I drove to the airport to make up. Since then, she's made me promise to stop leaving her. She's calling and texting almost everyday. On one particular day, she called me for an hour before she left for the airport, then an hour while she was at the airport, then when she got to her hotel room. A few days ago, she told me she was thinking of being less religious, but wouldn't say why. She's asked me to a charity event last week, but I wasn't in town. Tonight, she asked if I wanted to join her at a cd release party, but again, I couldn't. She said she had to leave for NYC tomorrow, but would be back on Monday, and asked if I wanted to have dinner with her then, she had the whole week free next week, which doesn't happen often. I agreed to that, and suggested a restaurant. Finally, yesterday, she made me lunch to take to the office. I could tell she took alot of time, it was arranged beautifully.



I am wondering if the last two weeks, she's realizing that we should be together. But I am not sure if she's just trying to be a better friend. We were always close, but it seems like she's making an effort. What do you think she wants from our relationship?Can someone give me advice about my relationship please?
i think she is realizes what an important person you are in her life and that she wants to have a relationship with you. i dont get the whole religion thing... but the fact that she is willing to change that says i lot. you need to mirror her efforts to try and make this work! good luck!Can someone give me advice about my relationship please?
Of course this girl REALLY wants to be with you and the whole religious thing with she saying she is going to be less religious means she will sacrafice her beliefs for you!!!

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